“Toxic masculinity” – When used by a new age Liberal female: Means testosterone and masculinity in an ‘actual’ man, who prizes a female who is feminine enough to trigger visceral desire. 

Men with toxic masculinity see the modern introverted, frumpy Liberal Women neutrally, like sweaty boys except they may have vaginas. 

Commonly used by mostly plain-looking and or obese females who were ever abused by, laughed-at by, pranked-by or rejected by males.

 “Toxic Masculinity” When used by today’s estrogen-rich, agnathic, soft bodied and soft spoken male: Refers to their Dads and every other male who ever abused, laughed-at, pranked or rejected them. 

The legions of men who are obviously more manly and confident than them. 

 Modern males intent on remaining boys and avoiding the protective, leadership and accountability qualities of actual “men” use the term to demean the manhood they will never achieve. 

 You can’t be ‘fired’ if you quit first. 

 So if you can’t attract a manly man, or BE a manly man it ‘saves face’ if you’re demonizing and devaluing them. The men who ARE actual men, and the women emotionally and physically eligible to HAVE an actual man do not use the term “Toxic Masculinity”. Just the ones “On the outside looking in.”